The Moment I Realized I Had a Choice

There was a time when I constantly fell victim to my negative mindset.
 

I didn’t even fathom that I could do something about it—I just automatically focused on the bad.
 

I look back now and realize: I was living my whole life on autopilot.
 

And that led me to a place where I was waking up feeling heavy, overwhelmed, and wondering what was wrong with me.
 

Then I discovered something simple—but radical:

 

I have choice.


I can choose how I view what’s happening in my life.

 

I can choose to focus on what I do well, rather than fixating on every “imperfection.”

 

I can choose to celebrate small wins—even when they don’t look like the outcome I imagined.
 

Confidence is a series of choices.
 

Each time I choose to be kind to myself instead of harsh…

Each time I choose to see the lesson instead of a failure…

Each time I follow through on something I promised myself…
 

…I’m casting a vote for me.

 

I’m building trust with myself.
 

And that’s how confidence is built—not all at once, but one decision at a time.

 

So let me ask you: What are you choosing for your life right now?

If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or caught in a cycle of self-doubt, here’s an invitation:

 

Let’s gently inquire into your choices, together.

 

Let's notice together what decisions are happening on autopilot.

 

And what choices you actually want to be making.

 

✨ Click here to grab a FREE coaching session with me

 

(Let this be your first vote for yourself.)

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